4. Request a photo

Request a photo A photo will give you a good idea of the person's appearance, which may prove helpful in achieving a gut feeling. In fact, it’s best to view several images of someone in various settings: casual, formal, indoor and outdoors. If all you hear are excuses about why you can't see a photo, consider that he or she has something to hide. Since Match.com offers free scanning services to its members, there’s no reason someone shouldn’t be able to provide you a photo.